al Law As the Bill and Monica drama has shown, sex addiction is not neccessarily what you would think it is. It is often not about the pervert, the exhibitionist, or the pornographer, although it can be. It is about your friendly neighbor down the street who turns out ot be, as everyone learns during the divorce, a hopeless womanizer. For example, a limo driver picks a guy up and all he needs to say is, I'm in town for a week and I'm looking for a beautiful girl and a good time and then slips him a fifty--he will give yo uthe numbers. Sex ....