There are so many factors that may affect one's view of this topic it becomes easy to see why it is controversial. To list all of the arguments would be impossible. However, by focusing on the main topics that both that both defend and disagree with the issue, we are able to get a brief glance at the enormity that the outcome of a problem like this carries in our society. Right from the beginning the bible states that it was not good for man to be alone; “therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wif ....